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Fear and Control.

We all know the feeling of deep helplessness and powerlessness. When every step feels heavy and we’re moving through thick resistance. Even getting out of bed becomes a challenge.

This inner pain – this quiet terror – is one of our most powerful teachers. It demands radical change and won’t tolerate delay.

In those moments, our inner world is filled with fear: existential fear. Fear of not being enough. Fear of making mistakes. Fear of conflict – above all else. Our mind tries to tame this fear with the only tool it knows: control.

But as you may have already experienced yourself, trying to control things only leads to more fear, more helplessness – more powerlessness. Because control is an illusion.

You are afraid of Surrender because don't want to lose control. But you never had control; all you had was anxiety.
by Elizabeth Gilbert

As demanding as our inner teacher may be, it lovingly invites us to let go. To surrender. And in that surrender, a profound transformation begins – toward a life that draws from your own inner truth.

There is more going on than you could ever understand. And we need you involved in less of it than you would ever believe. Just be (...).

I want to share with you the essence of one of Elizabeth Gilbert’s “Letters of Love”. In this beautiful piece, she distills what Love — as a guiding presence — longs for us to hear: That we are never alone. That we are already enough. That there is nothing to fix. That it's safe to let go, to care for ourselves, and to create from a place of freedom and joy.

This message feels like a deep exhale — a soft reminder of what truly matters. Below is a brief reflection inspired by her words, along with a quote that captures the heart of it. I warmly encourage you to read the full letter on her website. You can follow the link below the quote.

Love — as Elizabeth Gilbert describes it — has no agenda to change or improve us. It doesn’t ask us to be better, stronger, or more productive. Instead, it speaks with quiet insistence: You are already enough.

Love reassures us that we are not alone and never have been. It invites us to release the shame we carry, to stop trying so hard, and to remember that there is nothing to prove — and no race we are behind in.

One of the most liberating messages is this: You are not lost. You are not behind. You are exactly where you are meant to be, at the exact right time, doing exactly what you’re supposed to be doing. There have been no wrong turns. That realization lands like a deep breath — a reminder that we are already aligned with life.

In the softest voice, Love says: rest, take care, let go. And when we are ready — when our nervous system has softened and our heart feels safe — there is a gentle invitation: to create.

Not for success or approval, but for joy. For aliveness. For the sheer pleasure of participating in life.
Whether it’s writing, singing, dancing, planting, painting, or baking — we are all called to create in our own way. This too is Love in action.

You are perfect just the way you are. Almost as if you were designed to be who you are, on purpose.

With these words, I invite you to explore The Way of Creation – and with it, your own unique creative power.

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